[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.sikacz.cz\/tak-to-chodi\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.sikacz.cz\/tak-to-chodi\/","headline":"Tak to chod\u00ed","name":"Tak to chod\u00ed","description":"Ur\u010dit\u011b v dob\u011b dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed si doma v\u0161\u00edmal, jak\u00e9 maj\u00ed rodi\u010de kon\u00ed\u010dky. Co d\u011blaj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u011b, nebo","datePublished":"2018-09-18","dateModified":"2018-09-18","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sikacz.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sikacz.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0379e0c919e89f337c2f51ff1404922f8441b43281fb91f3719df99f70b9888f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0379e0c919e89f337c2f51ff1404922f8441b43281fb91f3719df99f70b9888f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sikacz.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sikacz.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a329996_w2746_t1542536136.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sikacz.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a329996_w2746_t1542536136.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sikacz.cz\/tak-to-chodi\/","wordCount":659,"articleBody":"Ur\u010dit\u011b v dob\u011b dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed si doma v\u0161\u00edmal, jak\u00e9 maj\u00ed rodi\u010de kon\u00ed\u010dky. Co d\u011blaj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u011b, nebo jestli se h\u00e1daj\u00ed, kv\u016fli n\u00e1kladn\u00fdm z\u00e1jm\u016fm jednoho z nich. S\u00e1m m\u00e1 sv\u00e9ho kon\u00ed\u010dka, o kter\u00e9m v\u00ed, \u017ee se mu bude cht\u00edt v\u011bnovat i v dob\u011b, kdy bude m\u00edt st\u00e1lou partnerku. To m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt impulsem k hled\u00e1n\u00ed takov\u00e9, kter\u00e1 se bude cht\u00edt v\u011bnovat t\u00e9\u017ee \u010dinnosti, nebo ji alespo\u0148 bude ochotn\u00e1 tolerovat. U\u017e ale v\u011bt\u0161inou nekouk\u00e1 na to, \u017ee i kdy\u017e se maj\u00ed r\u00e1di a ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b v\u011bc\u00ed si rozum\u00ed, ona m\u00e1 hobby zcela odli\u0161n\u00e9. Na to jej\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee pohl\u00ed\u017eet s despektem.  To je probl\u00e9m. Opakuje otc\u016fv pohled a n\u00e1zor na \u017eeny a jejich sv\u011bt. Tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eena se m\u00e1 v\u011bnovat hlavn\u011b rodin\u011b a kon\u00ed\u010dky jsou jen mu\u017esk\u00e1 z\u00e1le\u017eitost. Pro\u010d by to takhle m\u011blo b\u00fdt? My m\u00e1me makat v pr\u00e1ci i doma a oni se po pr\u00e1ci m\u016f\u017eou v\u011bnovat jen sv\u00fdm z\u00e1lib\u00e1m? To je ale \u0161patn\u011b! V\u011b\u010dn\u011b si st\u011b\u017eujeme, jak se k n\u00e1m chovaj\u00ed. Ale samy d\u011bl\u00e1me p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b syn\u016f tu samou chybu. P\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1me dal\u0161\u00ed generaci \u017een chlapa, kter\u00fd je rozmazlen\u00fd, mysl\u00ed si, \u017ee je pupkem sv\u011bta a p\u00e1nem tvorstva. Proto, i kdy\u017e vystuduje stejnou \u0161kolu jako jeho kamar\u00e1dka, si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee on m\u00e1 n\u00e1rok na lep\u0161\u00ed pracovn\u00ed pozici, s lep\u0161\u00edm platem a je mu \u00fapln\u011b jedno, \u017ee ona ukon\u010dila \u0161kolu s \u010derven\u00fdm diplomem. Pro n\u011bj to znamen\u00e1 jen to, \u017ee to byla \u0161prtka. V hor\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00fd, \u017ee k v\u00fdborn\u00fdm zn\u00e1mk\u00e1m p\u0159i\u0161la dost nemravn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Je zvan\u00fd nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdm na golf, projedn\u00e1vaj\u00ed se s n\u00edm d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 rozhodnut\u00ed a \u017eena je upozad\u011bna. Smutn\u00e9 ale b\u00fdv\u00e1, kdy\u017e \u0161\u00e9f po zam\u011bstnankyni vy\u017eaduje i tzv. \u017eenskou pr\u00e1ci. Je sice na stejn\u00e9m postu jako kolega ale nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd \u017e\u00e1d\u00e1, aby po n\u011bm umyla hrne\u010dek, vynesla jeho pln\u00fd ko\u0161 na odpadky, nebo mu ut\u0159ela st\u016fl, proto\u017ee tuhle pr\u00e1ci chlapi ned\u011blaj\u00ed.  Mu\u017e se pak c\u00edt\u00ed t\u00edm \u201elep\u0161\u00edm\u201c, i kdy\u017e kolegyn\u011b je tou, co p\u0159i\u0161la s nov\u00fdmi n\u00e1pady.  Pov\u00fd\u0161en\u00fd je tak\u00e9 d\u0159\u00edve on. Bohu\u017eel to je chv\u00edle, kdy mu \u201enarostou ramena\u201c a m\u016f\u017ee to doj\u00edt tak daleko, \u017ee za\u010dne svou b\u00fdvalou kolegyni, dnes u\u017e pod\u0159\u00edzenou, \u0161ikanovat. St\u00e1vaj\u00ed se ale p\u0159\u00edpady, kdy nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd m\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee ostatn\u00ed mu\u017ei pracuj\u00ed m\u00e1lo, i kdy\u017e maj\u00ed spoustu hodin p\u0159es\u010das\u016f a rozhodn\u011b je odveden\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce za nimi vid\u011bt, p\u0159esto up\u0159ednost\u0148uj\u00ed zam\u011bstnankyn\u011b. Toleruj\u00ed jim del\u0161\u00ed \u010das ob\u011bda, pozdn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edchody a d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed odchody, jejich pr\u00e1ci se sna\u017e\u00ed p\u0159erozd\u011blit mezi mu\u017esk\u00e9 osazenstvo a odm\u011bny za v\u010dasnou a dob\u0159e odvedenou pr\u00e1ci nedostanou ti, co ji skute\u010dn\u011b provedli, ale ony. Vypad\u00e1 to jako sci-fi? Ano, ale nen\u00ed. Co si myslet o takov\u00e9m mu\u017ei? No, \u017ee je doma \u201emalinkat\u00fd\u201c a k tomu, aby si na\u0161el takovou \u017eenu, ho vychovala maminka – gener\u00e1l. To je ten, co sn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed kolem sebe man\u017eel\u010dinu sb\u00edrku v\u00e1zi\u010dek, \u010di medv\u00eddk\u016f. Nebojte se nau\u010dit sv\u00e9ho syna respektu k \u017een\u00e1m, nau\u010dte ho, \u017ee d\u011blba pr\u00e1ce v dom\u00e1cnosti je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, vysv\u011btlete mu, \u017ee vzd\u011blan\u00e1 \u017eena m\u00e1 stejn\u00e1 pr\u00e1va jako on. Takov\u00ed mu\u017ei jsou pot\u0159eba a my jim za to sneseme modr\u00e9 z nebe.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 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